I’m not wedded!
I’m a young female who is debating whether in our economic times is or is not a good idea to bring more kids into this world?
With my everyday personal experiences I have been convince other wise. Reading about pregnancy and talking to  females that are pregnant with kids out of wedlock turns me more off about being a reproducing female especially in our society.
I’m very conferable with the idea of never having kids, If I’m ever in doubt I just hang out with my god son for a few hours and Im reminded once again of why I Dont want Kids.”I can simply ask a pregnant female how much fun shes having being pregnant and there response is always “Do not have Kids! And my reply being “thank god i don’t have kids!”
Reading article after article online and the one that I liked the most  was a break down of what some of the CONS of pregnancy.
Read below and you’ll find what i thought to myself, “Why would any one in their right mind want kids?”Many words came to mind like Ignorance, Stupidity, Selfishness, Accident, Negligence, Of course this wouldn’t pertain  to a married couple who both decide to start a family and they are financially, physically and mentally ready for a child. I’m talking about those females who have kids just to have kids for whatever reason IF ANY!
1. When you finally get to break out the summer dresses, you don’t get the rude awakening to the fact that if you dare wear a summer dress, you are asking for men to be obnoxious to you in the streets. You can just enjoy your dress and feel almost invisible to the annoying harrassing-type men. Those that maybe don’t notice at first your protruding belly, take it back immediately, “Oh, sorry, ma’am. I swear I had nothing to do with that baby. I want a paternity test, Ricky!”
2. You are eating for two. You’re supposed to be eating carefully and healthily for two. But when you reach for that second helping of ice cream, those are the words that pop into your head. Fat is good for the fetal brain development, no?
3. Pregnancy card comes in handy for all sorts of unexpected things. Messy house? Sick day? Pregnant. Late library books? Bad outfit? Feel like sitting on your a$$? Pregnant. Not that I would use my condition in such a way.
The obvious cons, people talk about:
1. First trimester issues: nausea, sore boobs, puke, food aversions.
2. You’re tired.
3. You look bloated.
4. You feel bloated.
5. You’re carrying around some extra weight.
6. No booze.
Here are some cons nobody talks so much about. I’m not saying I’ve had any or all of these. I’m just saying, I’ve been reading a lot of pregnancy guides, since I’m trying to sort of write one:
1. Sudden bloody noses.
2. A third nipple. (Or fourth. Or fifth.)
3. You are more likely to have yeast infections.
4. You are more likely to be called a breeder by a jerk.
5. You are way more likely to pee in your pants.
6. All of the drugs you are allowed to take suck. You’d have better luck using a voodoo doll on yourself.
7. Evil tests that make you think there is going to be something wrong with your baby, when everything is really ok. They do these “screens” that have way more false positives than necessary, causing undo stress, I think. If I were really worried, I probably would have gone straight for the amnio, frankly. But I’m not.
8. You get big b0obs. If you never had them before, and you wanted them when you were in junior high, you realize that that was a silly waste of time. They are sweaty things that get in the way a weigh you down. I want my mosquito bites back, please.
9. If you have another kid, you can no longer roughhouse with him. If you do, you’re honey gives you that, “You’re doing something dumb,” look. Then you feel dumb, yet rebellious.
10. Random people walk up to you on the street and tell you your baby is dropping. Or you’re having twins.
11. You don’t get to lift heavy things.
12. Skin tags
13. Worst of all… some of your friends still have to TTC. And it sucks.
! DOnt want to bring a child into an Unstable lifestyle, I want to afford one.
Besides the obvious a few years ago I took advantage of the best opportunity of a life time i couldn’t pass on. My cousin was pregnant and asked her if i can see the birth of her child to be. Every day was such an emotional roller coaster. I was READY! I had my bags ready to go and my cell phone on 24/7 because I was not going to miss this moment.
My cousins pregnancy was very important to me. I wanted front row seats to her delivery time. I was not going to miss this for anything in the world.
Even though This list alone was enough for me to get my tubes tide ASAP! I still  wanted to see the birth of my cousin to make my decision official.
It was a very late Night dark cold late November night and i receive the call!””Shes heading to the hospital And shes about to pop! I rush up out of bed and off to the hospital.
Getting to the hospital was another world of a waiting game. Minutes seem like hours and it just felt like hours were dragging like long days!
Finally The Doctor calls me in. I’m so nervous and excited because I made it! Yet a bit stressful hearing her scream and beg for the doctor to give her pain killers.
She was Sweating, crying, yelling, she would get up and walk and wanted to go to the bathroom every 5 min. No position was never right.
after 4 hours of waiting she finally was ready!. Looking at her with her legs completely Open over our heads and just thinking of the baby coming out of her body through her vagina Set the Deal and I said NOT ME! Im adopting!
The human body is amazing and birth can definitely be a great example as to why. The moment when i saw the kids head squeezing through her body taring her and splitting her open, Blood everywhere with hands and tools on her vagina like used up beat up meat that she was. For a second right before the last push it felt like all of her insides were going to follow the babies path way down the tunnel and she was going to deteriorate right then and there.
I thought to myself! “This is why i don’t want kids”
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